There are no two identical situations, however if you observe one or more of the following situations or changes in your relationship you may be facing a adultry situation.
Unusual or unneeded birth control measures.
Lack of intimacy and lack of confidence in the relationship. Your partner no longer confides in you or seeks your advice.
New and secretive online activity. Your partner has a email address that they keep secret from you, or has additional and unusual online security measures.
Deletes all new emails or texts, when normally would allow them to accumulate in the inbox.
A new interest in online social networking sites such as facebook.com, myspace.com or Match.com
A new cell phone, or a secret cell phone that you are not supposed to know about.
Your partner begins deleting incoming calls from caller ID.
Unusual number of hang ups or wrong numbers on the home phone.
Your partner stops wearing their wedding band, making excuses that seem unreasonable.
Your partner is working late, but seems not to be overly stressed about the additional work or does not relate any stories of the additional work load.
Your partner is working late but his/her pay does not increase.
Your partner begins having bills and other documents sent to another address or PO box.
A change in music preferences or home made CD’s in the vehicle.
A sudden change in sexual interest: he/she wants to try new techniques, a sudden change in desire either less or more.
Unexplained marks, bruises or other abrasions on your partner's body.
Co workers or your partner's friends seem uncomfortable around you.
Your partner spends an unusual amount of time on the computer after you have gone to bed.
Your partner's leave and sick time does not add up to days actual taken.
Your partner has a sudden interest in his/her appearance, working out or other physical changes.
Any of these situations may indicate adultery. It is important to look at the context as well as the actual event to determine if there is a viable cause for concern. Black Ice security can help you sort through these indicators in our initial phone conversation. Be open and honest to your investigator from the beginning and Black Ice Security will be better able to assist in determining if you need an investigator.
